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Sabs uniform saga July 30, 2009

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It’s been nearly two months since Saboor started school at Cathedral and just yesterday he got his complete uniform set. Every day he either wore a set of regular clothes or the full white uniform which he’s wearing in the picture above.

I remember when Saboor and I went to give his measurements in school, there was a very irate woman who ranted on and on about how Cathedral really delay giving out uniforms. I thought she was exaggerating a bit. But it’s true. First, in all the time I studied in Baldwins I never saw so many new students joining. And then I never saw any new student without a uniform for so long! I mean, new students would come wearing the uniform itself. We were always made to feel that tolerance level for those who came without uniforms for whatever reason was absolutely nil.

Anyway, I guess each school is different. So far I’m happy that I put Sab here because he seems to have made friends easily enough and there’s so much possibility for free play.

Also, one more point in favour of Cathedral is that all the teachers have treated me with utmost respect. Don’t get me wrong, but in St. Pauls too, all the teachers were extremely courteous towards me. Why I’m making such a big point of this is because there’s a certain manner in which burkha clad women were viewed in my school. I’d often see teachers being a little snappy towards my mother whenever she came to school and it would hurt me quite a bit.

I don’t know how things are in Baldwins now but it gladdens my heart to see that there are other good schools who are not bound by prejudice of any sort.

Anyway, enough of that discussion. Here’s Saboor wearing the school uniform for the first day.

July 30, 2009

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So, I finally figured out a way to send an email to my blog from my phone. This is just a test post to see if it works!

First blog post from my e71 July 9, 2009

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Okay. So I’ve gone and done it again. Bought a new phone I mean. This time I’m back to nokia and am I glad! Plus this phone is so cool with some really cool features. Everytime I thin this is it…this will be my final phone but I soon get bored and start looking around for something else. But this time it could really be it!

Just imagine! I don’t need a computer to surf the net or to write my stuff! I think that’s the coolest thing about this phone! I know that everyone is probably thinking ‘yeah right’

Busy Monday July 6, 2009

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It’s been a very busy Monday for me, and I am really tired..waiting to hit the bed. But before I do, I need to take Az to the toilet again or he’ll pee on the bed because its so cold. I usually get up twice in the night to take him to toilet so my sleep is still not undisturbed. And people, I haven’t slept a full night’s sleep since March 2006! :( (

Anyway, the day began as usual, with me taking Sab to the pick up point where his bus arrives. Got back home and got Azhaan ready. Then, we went to drop him to his playschool,got back home, had breakfast, went to see Sajida chachi, went to pick up Azhaan from school, got back home, went to moms place, dropped Az at home and went to Saboors school to meet his Hindi teacher because some of the pages in his text book are blank. Got back home and had lunch, got down to work, gave Az his milk, sat down to work again when Ammi took the kids out…worked, worked, worked until i finished everything and then, came back to Koramangala, gave kids dinner, put them to sleep and now, I’m shutting down my laptop and going to sleep! Whew!

Heartrending Story June 18, 2009

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Sometimes I’m too lazy to open links that people send me through email or messenger. Maybe its because I fear I will be drawn into it and I will ignore what I am doing currently. Well, today, Biji sent me a link and for some reason I went ahead and opened it. And yes, I’m not able to concentrate on anything else since then. But I don’t really care now. This affected me personally and I hope that you too will take the time to open the link and read it.

http://themadmomma.wordpress.com/2009/06/13/the-vbac-gone-wrong/

Saboor’s First Day at Cathedral High School June 4, 2009

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Tomorrow (ok, technically, it’s today as 4th June has begun) is Saboor’s first day at Cathedral High School. I’m nervous as well as excited for him. I feel he’s lived a different kind of sheltered life all along as far as schooling is concerned. And now all that is going to change.

I sincerely pray to Allah that he makes good friends there, the kind who will stick by him and not lead him astray. He’s a child who has so much joie de vivre in him, and I really hope that this school helps him find his potential, and doesn’t strangle any creativity that is there in him. And I also hope that I made the right decision by choosing this school.

Gosh…I’m sitting here blogging about this and Mansoor is sitting and watching the T20 match on TV with hardly any concern. I think we women worry on their behalf also!

And as for Azhaan. It was his first day of school and he went very happily until the gate. There he looked a little bit uncertain and then the ayah asked him to go with her and he refused. She carried him and went away and he bawled and cried and screamed and I got to hear that he did throw up, just as I had feared. It will take a little time for him to settle down. But it seems strange to admit it, I hardly felt any separation pangs when he went away inside. For Saboor, I now remember that I felt like crying myself. But I guess i’m a bit hardened now.

Ok, it’s time I went to sleep. At last the summer vacations are over!!!!!

First Day Ever at School! June 2, 2009

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Does anyone remember what their first day at school was like?

I remember my first day quite well although it sounds unbelievable. There I was in the nursery section of Baldwins and I was happy because my cousin Sadaf was with me. Both of us were totally engrossed in playing in the sand and after a while I realised that I had no idea where my parents were. I looked up and saw my Abbu and Sadaf’s father smiling at us from outside the nursery gate. That’s all I remember. If I add anything more to it, it would probably be a fabrication of something my memory has added over the years.

Tomorrow is going to be Azhaan’s first day at school. It’s hard to believe somehow because I remember the day he was born as if it were yesterday! (Ayesha, I even remember you sending me the SMS when I told you about the planned operation, you said, congrats on becoming Mummy V2.0 or something!) Ok, that ought to prove that I have quite an elephantine memory. But its selective, like it is for most of us. Ok, I’m digressing.

Yes, so its Azhaan’s first day tomorrow at Podar Jumbo Kids. I’m excited and a little nervous because of late, he has started this new thing of throwing up when he’s crying. And since he’s really very attached to me, he’s not going to like it when I leave him there.

Of late, he has started using ‘Please’ a lot, not to actually be polite, but more in a pleading kind of way which I just cannot resist. I really hope he will not say something like, ‘Please no school’!

So, I had promised him chocolate cake for the first day of school and I finished baking it. Although I really don’t think he’s going to be very keen on opening that cute Pooh box I got for him to see what he has got.

Saboor’s first day is a little hazy because he just cried and cried and screamed and he refused to be taken upstairs.
I just hope Azhaan settles into school quickly!

So, all you guys out there….what was your first memory of school? I’m sure it will make for interesting reading!

Yay! May 30, 2009

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I had built up quite a repertoire of posts in my earlier Yahoo 360 blog and I had to let go of them when I switched to Word Press. I had no idea that Yahoo 360 was shutting down for good and when I got an email from them asking me to shift all my stuff, I was feeling saddened. When I had made the switch to WordPress, there was no option to import posts from Yahoo. So, I had made a new beginning then.

But today I got to know that they were allowing us to import all our posts into WordPress from Yahoo. And I went right ahead and did it! So now, all my older posts are intact and safe. I was just reading a couple of old ones from the Yahoo blog and laughing like anything, reading about Saboor’s antics! I had started that blog sometime in 2005, and man, four years back, life was SO different! I’m glad I started the Yahoo 360 blog (Sowm, I have you to thank for that!) because all this part of my life would have gone undocumented.

Anyway, all my friends out there who had Yahoo 360 blogs, its time you did the same unless you haven’t already done it and I’m belatedly crowing about this!

One more thing, I had no idea you could do so many things with Gmail. See, what I mean is that I never check my Yahoo mails. They always take ages to load and I don’t have the time for them. But recently I learnt that I could download all my Yahoo mails into my Gmail account through POP and label it separately. So what I mean is that if I hadn’t done this, I wouldn’t have read the Yahoo mail about Yahoo 360 shutting down (although it’s still way off in July) and I might have lost all those posts forever! Yay to Gmail! And to Open Source software like WordPress which gives us so much freedom. (I’ve got Jun to thank for this interesting analysis of all things related to software on his blog which he has given the unlikely title of Ruminating Muse)

Ciao till then! It’s a lovely Saturday and <groan> I have to be at work! <sigh>

May, thankfully over! May 29, 2009

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Yes, May is thankfully drawing to a close. It has never been one of my favourite months from quite a few years for the simple reason that having Saboor around at home, all day, every day is not an easy task. There are other memories also associated with May that are not entirely what I want to remember, memories from when I was a teenager etc.

So, June is just two days away and Saboor’s school starts on 4th June while Azhaan’s starts on 3rd. I am sure that Azhaan is going to kick up quite a ruckus about being away from me and I have no idea how to deal with it. Will bother about it when that happens I guess. I am also a bit worried about Saboor because he will be the new kid in class. I hope he can make friends easily there, and become one of the crowd.

Then, we got Saboor’s books and everything and we have to cover them as yet. I still have to buy his shoes, socks and other accessories and his uniform might apparently be delayed by a few days so I have no idea if its ok if he goes in his regular clothes.

Soon, these lazy mornings are going to give way to a mad rush in the morning when I have to make breakfast and lunch, pack it and get the kids ready before sending them off to school. But the peace and quiet that follows will be fantastic I hope! Will get much more of my work done in that way.

By the way, I was planning on writing this and kept putting it off and then I saw Anamika’s post on it and thought I’d better write what I was thinking too!

WiFi Trouble May 24, 2009

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Why do we make something that we hadn’t even heard of until recently so important that all our lives begin to revolve around it? Especially things like WiFi.

Until sometime back I only knew what WiFi was. I could pretty well manage without it, because I had my trusty computer with me. And with Airtel’s near impeccable internet connection I never really faced any problems.

The last year I bought my laptop. And when I installed a wireless router in my house, I realised the power of WiFi. I could sit anywhere and still be connected to the internet. I soon got used to having the internet follow me wherever I went. And then it became something I took for granted.

Then earlier this year, I realised that my laptop was getting very hot. So I went and bought those laptop cooling stands with fans underneath. Fat lot of good that did to me! In barely two days my WiFi stopped working. I couldn’t understand it. I tried everything, reinstalling the entire OS and then Jun and I even took apart the back of the laptop and tried replacing the hard disk back and all sorts of stuff!

I took the laptop to the HP service center which was more like a hospital for injured laptops We(my laptop and me) were given a number and when our turn came the engineer asked us to step inside the consultation room. He looked at me incredulously when I explained my problem to him. Impossible! he said. There’s no connection between your WiFi and the laptop cooler. To prove it to me, he switched on the laptop and there it was working beautifully, the blue light winking away at him charmingly.

See, I told you so, he said and I took the recalcitrant laptop back home. And within two days, voila, my WiFi again disappears. And this time it’s forever. The HP laptop hospital, oops, I mean the service center this time did not take it lightly. Since my 1 year warranty had expired, I would have to pay for whatever repairs they would undertake and since they assumed it was probably trouble in the motherboard, I might have to be ready to shell out at least 14 to 15k.

Horrified, I took my laptop back and I went home. I was just going to get an external network adaptor…those USB thingies that we plug into the USB slot of the computer and it makes the laptop WiFi compliant.

I was not entirely happy with that. Which reminds me again, I am never going to buy any Belkin products again. The laptop cooler was a Belkin one and the network adaptor was also a Belkin. The latter sometimes stopped working and I would have to reconfigure the entire WiFi connection again. It was tiring and one day, Azhaan saw it hanging out from the laptop and decided to push it down instead of pulling it out.  Snap! It didn’t break, but it was close to it. Now I had to hold something under the network adaptor for the points to connect and for it to catch the WiFi. Extremely tiring, let me tell you!

I gave up on my laptop then, and asked Mansoor if we could exchange laptops. He has a Sony Vaio and after a little time he agreed reluctantly.  Now, that Vaio was like a virgin laptop.

The drive wasn’t partitioned, and there was hardly any useful software in it. I liked how it looked, it was lightweight and very sleek. But it didn’t have the feel of my laptop, specially the keys which refused to fly under my fingers.

I used that laptop for about 10 days and then one day, it refused to start up. It didn’t boot and no matter what I tried, it wasn’t working. And since the drive wasn’t partitioned, everything was in C Drive and when I had to reinstall the OS, all my data got wiped out. Lucikly I had taken backups when I transferred the data from my Compaq to the Vaio.  But I lost everything that had come in between.

When the problem got resolved, I started using the laptop again, I was very irritated. Pissed off like anythign actually. All my work, my organisation, my folders…everything had to be done again.

Two days of working with the Vaio, getting the keys stuck and not being able to type as fast as I think made me decide that WiFi or not, I was going back to the Compaq. And just to show its tongue at me, the WiFi on the Compaq worked perfectly for a whole day!

Two days I worked, stuck near the modem. It wasn’t bad but I missed the mobility. Then on Friday, I went to EZone and bought a new network adaptor. It’s working fine so far. Touchwood.

See what I meant? We get ourselves used to all this unnecessary stuff and then we can’t live without it!!